People usually make their present difficult and worrisome because of regretting for what they have done in past. Regretting for what has happened is something that cannot bring any positive change in your life. However, you will disturb your own peace of mind. It is better to peep into past and learn from the mistakes you have had made. In this way, your life will be on the track of development. Following are some of the tips that can help you come out of your past’s mistakes and live your present wholeheartedly.
Consider yourself a worthy being
Every human being is a distinctive individual. Don’t try to make yourself like anyone else around. Try to make use of your strengths and weaknesses to improve your life.
Don’t try to blur your personality to make others happy
You cannot make everyone around you happy. Don’t try those things, which do not suit your personality and you are doing it just for the sake of making others happy. It will mislead you and will ruin the beauty of your individuality.
Calm yourself down when you are angry
Never speak up when you are angry. You may utter those words, which could badly hurt your loved ones. You can never take back the words once said. It is better to take a deep breath and calm down yourself first, before you say anything.
Choose your company of your own choice
Sit and spend time with people of your choice. In this way, your behavior will remain positive. You will spend time happily with your company. The chances of doing anything bad would be relatively less.
Do what you love
A person spends major portion of his/her day at work. Try to pick that job, which you could do happily.
Learn from your mistakes
Try not to repeat those mistakes, which have had hurt anyone that you love.
Stop trying to ask for others appraisal
Do well on your part. Don’t expect others appreciation. In this way you will not get disappointed and will not even say anything wrong to any other person.
Try not to make promises that you cannot keep up with
Make promises for only those things, which are in your capacity. Making promises for the things that are out of your capacity can hurt others.
Spend time on your wellbeing
Consider yourself the most important one. If you will spend time on your healthy, only then you will be able to do well with people around.
Be thankful for what you have
Stop whining all the time. It will make you and people around, unhappy.