Being human beings, it is common to be always in wanting more in your life. It is seems that many people complain about for what they don’t have rather than thanking for what they have currently. This attitude is common but not positive at all. If you talk about relations, then this behavior could be very damaging. In case you are not fulfilled by what your spouse feels for you, gives you or brings back at home, then you cannot be appreciative and loving towards him/her. Resultantly, you might start losing your value in your spouse’s eyes gradually. Therefore, it is better to evaluate your life and your situation first. It is not necessary that you could only be unsatisfied by your spouse.
Here, it is also being discussed regarding the behavior of your kids. Those, who remain unsatisfied, for them; every situation and person that comes their way and is closest to them, do not fulfill their expectations. All this can result in losing all that is valuable. You should never make this mistake. To keep yourself and your loved ones happy, you must first look at yourself and compared you situation with those, who don’t have anything. In this way you will start valuing your relations and life. Believe it! If you will be thankful for what you have, happiness and success are going to come your way. This would be the way, your spouse would start loving and respecting you more and in this way your kids’ behavior will become more civilized. Once you will learn this, then you will stop complaining about teeny weenie things. Your value in the eyes of others will be elevated.
Make a gratitude diary
Be thankful at the end of the day by counting on the luxuries and blessings you have been blessed.
Appreciate for your present
Stop whining over what you don’t have. Count your blessings in the form of your spouse, kids, finances and career. It will make you feel fulfilled and blessed. You will value your relations this way.
If you see anyone else except your own self in problem, take an initiative and help them in best possible way. In this way, you are going to realize that you are in better situations than others.
Nobody is perfect
Never expect more than enough from your spouse, kids and job, as it is going to bring nothing to your way rather than just pain. Moreover, you should realize that no one is perfect. Accepting your relations with their perfections and imperfections can make the bond strong.
Tell yourself that you have everything sufficient
Keep telling yourself that whatever you have is sufficient enough and the things you see others have may not be suitable for you.
If you will apply these strategies to your relations and life, you are going to be happiest person ever. You will not hurt your loved ones as well.