You are being played foolish all this time because your man is not worth your love; he doesn’t commit to you and will never be. You need to cut off your ties with him because he is not the one you imagined after reading a romantic novel or the guy from your favorite romantic movie. He is the guy from the real world and his commitment can be hardly observed to your relationship. He can’t be the perfect guy of your dreams; rarely can he match your standard of love and you can’t trust him.
Had he ever made a solid commitment to you, you would then feel confident in him for keeping him in your life. But, not for once, his actions would determine his true intentions for you and your love. It looks like that you have been played by his charm and he got your attention by saying all the right things. But now you can see clearly that he looks like the prototype guy, who can fit the definition of your dream guy but he would never make you feel like you can trust him, he doesn’t commit to you and that is imperative to you.
Your mind warns you relentlessly on a number of things you’ve started observing that are a little too difficult to swallow. In today’s world where everyone’s saving own interest, it’s quite hard to believe that he is genuine and you will do a big mistake by refusing to trust him. Your proactive approach to love is a result from all of the failed relationships around you and you are saving yourself from making another huge mistake. Also, most of the time, your mind relies on the fact that there is something hidden behind him being nice towards you and his emotions seem not real.
Despite hesitation, there is another side of your feelings that tells you that he’s interested in you in a real way. He has an effect on your heart beat when he sees you and you feel out of breath when he starts talking to you. You can feel that you’re opening up to him on various things in your life that you would never openly discuss to anyone else and he is the right choice. He knows the way to arouse your feelings and you can see your future with this guy. He seems mature and it would be foolish of you by refusing to let him into your life. You really don’t want to slip away this opportunity from your hand by not committing to him. But, have you ever felt he’s willing to commit to you in return? This is the complicated part to bring all the aspects of a love relationship into reconsideration.
When you question yourself for being okay in a casual or noncommittal relationship, do you feel you heart hinge upon to take this chance? You are emotionally invested in your relationship and you expect same commitment from your guy but you can’t seem to find it because his interest is opposite to yours.
Walk away because you can’t play it longer, he doesn’t deserve you love and time.
You desire security and the confidence to go about your life which he is unable to commit to you. A great guy realizes these things on a very early stage of a relationship and makes effort to build the trust because he loves his woman with a genuine heart and she is worth all the respect. So, see the difference for yourself and make the right decision for a happy and contented life.
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