Women have skeptical minds especially, when the matter on hand is their relationship. They doubt a lot; predicting situations that aren’t anywhere close to reality, mixed feelings, uncertain gestures, intimacy under suspicion, they have their own truth-o-meter to judge someone’s feelings for them. However, they don’t do it intentionally or to have some fun out of it but they are protective of their emotions being played by someone who they adore very much in their life. The thought of losing their love turns them into an extra careful being, super intuitive, not to trust only what they see or hear. Therefore, men find it difficult to reach out and make their women believe that their emotions are true and they mean serious business.
Very often, women don’t find a suitable relationship for them, just because they doubt every step that has taken by a person who wants to get closer to them, hence, their insecurity doesn’t allow them to settle or accept love of a man. While doing this, they deprive themselves of a sincere love who wants to knock at their door but they wouldn’t reach out because of their suspicion.
If you are interested in a person, let them open up and tell you how they feel about you. Don’t doubt him if your man says or claims his love for you, maybe he means serious business and you would ignore this golden chance if you open your fist and let him go.
These 6 things, he would do only for you when he has truest feelings in his heart and he is planning for a long-haul with you:
1. When he says his commitment is only for your relationship, trust him.
It’s hard to believe your man saying he commits to your relationship because of millions of reasons. A common belief of a society is that a man can’t tie himself down to one woman only. However, this perception is mostly based considering on the people who have never been lucky in their relationships, hence, they never assume a man being loyal to a single woman.
You need to look at the other side, where a man is willing to handcuff himself to your side and no one else can give him the satisfaction he feels being with you. For him, he finds the right girl and he will fight till his last breath to keep you closer, trust him.
2. When he tells you that he envisions his future only with you, trust him.
A man claiming his future ties with his girl means serious and not joking around. If he is serious for you then he will discuss everything about his future and you shaping both of your lives in your relationship. Guys don’t discuss time that has yet be exposed unless they have deep feelings for someone special.
3. When he admits that he is scared of losing you, trust him.
It’s an absolute discovery for a man accepting his weakness in front of his woman, but when he does that means he wants to depend on her with his life and death and she has become his weakness. He fears losing her because that would be devastating for him and even the thought of not having her in his life frightens him.
4. When he asks you to meet his family, trust him.
How often a man asks his girl to meet his family? Not very, but when your man asks you to meet his family, you should trust his intentions that he is madly in love with you and wants to spend his life with only you.
5. When he opens up about every minute detail of his life, trust him.
Emotions are complicated chapters in a man’s life, hardly, they admit what they actually feel, let alone expressing them to others. Women often complain of their men as cold and distant, despite being passionate on their intimate side. In reality, such men are not faithful considering that they don’t trust their women with the life secrets.
But, if a man breaks down the wall of secrets and puts his guard down then you don’t doubt him. Instead, trust him and his actions.
6. When you can actually feel him saying this phrase “I love you”, trust him.
This phrase can be expressed in varied ways but when it is proclaimed with sincere emotion then it is warmly felt to whom it is said to. You’ll be able to feel your man’s love words when he says with complete surrender to you, then don’t doubt him.
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