an unfaithful partner

Moving On From an Unfaithful Partner

Being cheated on is probably the worst thing a person would want to go through. It feels like your whole world has fallen apart and your heart has broken into several million pieces. Knowing that the one person you thought was the closest to your heart had been an unfaithful partner to you just tears you apart. But one needs all the strength in the world to stand firm and not let this storm disrupt them.

Of course you would want to know why your man was unfaithful to you and there can be many reasons for that. The reasons can vary. You might be having relationship problems or they might be mentally disturbed due to a rough history. It might not be related to you at all.

However you will need to figure out and then move forward. Staying strong is difficult but there are ways you can cope with this issue.

with your emotions

1. Settle down with your emotions:

You will need to understand that what has happened cannot be reversed hence you need to make peace with your sentiments. It is going to be difficult to move on and be strong. You will feel low and horrible all the time. You will just have to understand that its going to take time to feel better.

2. Don’t turn your negative thoughts into negative actions:

Of course you are going to b very angry. Being cheated on brings out the worst in people. But you will need to control your anger and not take revenge. You will want them to feel the same way you are feeling but doing them wrong will only make you feel worse hence don’t do it.

negative actions

3. Pamper yourself:

You will need to look after yourself after this huge heartbreak. You will be weak and all kinds of negative thoughts and emotions will be circling you. You need to push them away and try to make yourself happy. You are in a very emotional state of mind right now. There is nothing more that you want that hurts you even more. Be careful and take care of yourself.

4. Don’t come up with finger pointing:

When you are hurt and vulnerable you will tend to blame each other or even yourself for faults in order to try to find reasons behind the betrayal. However this is the last thing you should be doing. Do not find faults and reasons as to why this happened and who is to blame for what happened. It is only going to hurt you more and weaken your relationship even further.

5. Keep this between you and your partner:

If you are married and have a family, try not to include them in this fight. Children are badly affected by such issues and it stays on their minds much longer and later in their lives. Hence it is best to keep them aside and solve the matter amongst the two of you.

Consult a counselor

6. Consult a counselor:

Resolving issues is a good step towards moving on. You can go to therapists or marriage counselors to come up to mutual agreements.try to take help from a third party.

7. Don’t rush into anything:

Take it slow and steady. Don’t hurry into making final decisions. Don’t give up and patiently continue with this life.