No mediocrity acceptable…
Moving forward against the wind, against the odds of the society they live in, against norms that they have been brought up into, they defy everything breaking the unnecessary pressure to be in the relationship in the early age, they are the women who stay single and who want the best for them.
Their flight to a romantic destination is still airborne, perhaps they haven’t been sure what they need from their dating life or perhaps the right person hasn’t come to sight.
Perhaps, complacency is the best taste they have ever tasted and this is their freedom for being the happiest in the world. Solitude, without a partner, is not starting to prick them as yet, perhaps there is more to learn, to grow as individual, to understand what they truly desire, before they love a person they want to know their limits, perhaps something has yet to blossom in their life and they are fine waiting for that moment.
A desire has yet to be touched, to bloom and breathe…
Life for them is not deprived of love and care, the women who stay single find people in life with best of interest for them, motivating and making them happy with no underlying motives, hence no resentment.
They know when time is right for them they will find someone who will be perfect…
There is not a remote possibility that they blame time and circumstances for being alone. They are waiting for the right time and the right person to enter their life and till then, they want to make the most out of their current time. Feeling guilty or shame for not being in a relationship is not bothersome for the women who stay single as they are thriving individually and embracing every moment spent being contented with themselves.
There is no error in their personality if they are still single, they are still passionate, deeply motivated, fiercely accomplishing their life goals, cherishing every moment with their close friends, and relentlessly pushing boundaries to fulfill their dreams. What could be more they ask for?
They don’t have to put their personal life on halt just to make their partner happy, no compromises whatsoever have to be made for the relationship to work for them, hence no burden.
Still, when the subtle emotion starts to manifest inside their heart, they tend to explore the many other aspects of their life, because the person they should deserve has not arrived yet. Their direction is clear, and they are sure of the behavior which is not acceptable by all means, so before they would make a mistake the intrinsic mechanism is already working inside their mind to scan the right or wrong option.
All this time that they have been managing without a partner, they get to know their self-worth and their role in making their own life better as an individual. It doesn’t make a huge difference should they be in a relationship earlier because they find fulfillment in their life by making their own self happy.